To use the word ‘opt’ or a word with ‘opt’ and base our post on that word.
I have used the word ‘Adopt’.
Here’s my thought on moms who didn’t carry their children in their wombs, but gave birth to them from their hearts, thus forging a relation for the lifetime. They are sure in par with biological moms, if not higher.
A small quote that I wrote sometime back for those wonderful women,